Private sex text chats
Does your heart skip when your phone buzzes with a message from your new flame?If a new survey is to be believed, all those texts and late-night Facebook chats might lead you into the bedroom faster too.magazines, nearly 80% of women and 58% of men said they believed that using social media tools with new partners leads to sex sooner, according to a recent Reuters article.(More on Time.com: See the 50 best i Phone apps) Maybe it’s because constant digital communication between dates increases a sense of intimacy, and makes even days-old relationships seem longer or more intense.Or maybe it’s because lovey-dovey text messages (or sexting, more likely) amps up anticipation and paves the way to the bedroom sooner.It’s no wonder, then, that 65% of respondents said they had been asked out via text message.The text was also a common mode of breaking up: 43% of women and 27% of men reported at least one instance of getting dumped via text.Text messaging has become the social norm for communicating.Its ease of use with hardly any effort allows us to be in touch with anyone from anywhere at any time.
Jeremiah communicated how deceitful the heart can be, even for one who thinks they have control of their heart.There are many who respect their spouses completely, stewarding well their texts, never venturing into discussing feelings or sex with the opposite sex in a text.But I think the slope is too slippery to ignore; these individuals walk it like a tightrope, sometimes without even knowing it. The culprit is the heart of the person text messaging.(Jeremiah 17:9) Too often in text messaging, particularly with the opposite sex, insignificant words are sent that are consciously and unconsciously linked to more significant emotional or sexual roots in the heart; roots that are intended to remain deeply rooted in a marriage instead outside of it.I cannot tell you how many times I’ve heard stories of married men and women texting outside their marriage with the opposite sex and it began innocently, discussing topics about their kids’ school or their spouse’s new job, and then all of a sudden finding themselves in a heated conversation about how their spouse doesn’t want to talk about their feelings or that they noticed the other at the gym, commenting on how they like their tight-fitting gym clothes.